How Does it Feel To Date A Flight Attendant?
If you go to Rome, do what the Romans do. This is a very popular adage, and I want to borrow it for this article. There are particular things to know when going into some forms of relationships.
Some relationships demand the highest form of commitment and sacrifices as compared to others, so before making any move, you need to know what you are going in for. Such relationships include dating a flight attendant.
Oh yes, flight attendants are hot and can get you gaga with their beauty. But if you use that as a basis to date one, then you will greatly be disappointed. Now, here are some things to know before making a move to date a flight attendant.
1. You Need to be a Conversationalist
Hello, do you need something, Can I help you, etc. may be the longest phrase a flight attendant may use during a flight. They are used to short talks at work but will need more when at home. That is not to say they are not good in communication.
They are communication experts because they deal with different people all the time. However, they need someone who is interesting to be with, someone who can keep a conversation until there is nothing more to be said. You need to be very expressive, open-minded, thoughtful and deep when dating a flight attendant.
2. They are Good Conflict Manager
As part of their training, flight attendants are thought how to manage conflicts in flight. They can resolve the petty conflicts and complains that happens between travelers.
This becomes a plus when dating a flight attendant. She will be able to resolve issues as they happen. She knows that conflict is bound to happen when persons of different background meet and know how to resolve such issues.
3. They can be Very Moody
Stress, tiredness, having to encounter rude and mean travelers makes it easy for them to have a mood swing. You may have to deal with this other side of them very carefully.
You should first know that it’s not their fault, they are human and things can affect them like any other person. But, they can’t vent their hunger and frustrations on a passenger, you will have to be the victim sometime. Give her time if you notice she is in a bad mood, things will normalize very soon.
4. They are Sleep Deprived and Sleeps a lot When at Home
Flight attendants work long hour attending to peoples need in the airplane. They are not able to sleep even when feeling sleepy because a customer will snap the finger asking for help.
Also, they work in different time zones, and that also affect their sleeping pattern. She will, therefore, sleep as long as she can when home. This doesn’t mean she is lazy. She is just fulfilling nature’s request.
5. They Don’t Joke With Their Image
They always want to be on the point whether at work or going out on a date. Their public image and appearance are significant to them, and the make is sure that not to compromise on it. You need to be a little more patient when going out with her.
She may take time applying makeup to look and dressing up for an event. Bear with her; it has become part of them. She is not doing that only for herself but for you too. Dating a hot looking and presentable woman is a plus. Your family and friend will like her.
6. Without Trust, You Can’t Date One
Trust is essential in every relationship. It is even more important when your partner works in the hospitality industry. Flight attendants are mostly seen as flirtatious and promiscuous because of the nature of their job. They meet a different class of people, so many are of the notion that they easily give in to men.
For God sake, flight attendants have honor and dignity. Agreed that some of them have a promiscuous lifestyle but that doesn’t mean they are all the same.
If she doesn’t need you, she won’t keep you. Once she always returns to you after traveling the world, know that she loves you. For the relationship to work, you need is to trust her.
7. They Look Calm Even When in Distress
This reminds me of “appearance can be deceptive.” Some people look relaxed even when facing some problems. This is how a flight attendant is trained to be. They always look calm even during an emergency in the airplane. They do that to put passengers to calm.
This trait naturally becomes part of them, and that makes it difficult to notice when they are suffering inside. You should know her well enough to see when she is going through some problem. Reach out and talk to her when you notice she easily have mood swings. She may be going through difficulties.
8. They Are Easily Impressed
They have seen it all. They have traveled around the world, seen beautiful places, slept in plus hotels and have eaten in high-class restaurants. So what else can you do to impress her? They don’t need it.
All she wants is the little special things that make them feel like a woman. Instead of spending huge sums of money on her, give her your time and attention. Treat her good and show her love. She will be very grateful to you her entire life.
9. They are Caring
I need not mention this because it is their core duty to care for passengers. But do you know this can be extended to you? Yes, they don’t only care for their passengers but also their partners. She will shower you with all the love and care you deserve when they are with you.
So, are you going in or backing out? The decision is yours to make. That said, dating a flight attendant could be a wonderful experience. Try it!