How to Make your Ex-Boyfriend Jealous – Tips and Advice
Before you can move on from your past relationship, there are a few steps to take. You have spent time together with someone and shared our life with them. But now when the relationship is over, you probably feel hurt and disappointed, especially if your ex-left you.
If you want to show him what he missed out on and get tiny revenge, or want to get back together with him, making him jealous can be just the right thing to do.
1. Be happy without him
Being happy is a big part of getting over your ex. Of course, you should take some time to grieve the relationship, but don’t get upset for too long. Also, don’t try to pretend that you are doing great when in fact you are completely miserable.
Take care of yourself and your needs. See your friends, go shopping and pamper yourself. All of these things can make you feel more positive and have a better outlook on life. Once your ex-sees that you are doing fine without him, he might start to remember how great of a person you are.
2. Be mature about your break up
You and your ex probably have some common interests, and you might bump into each other from time to time. When you see him and talk to him, try not to make a scene.
Act maturely and show him that you are a reasonable grown up. If you want to make him jealous, don’t give him a reason for thinking he has made the right decision. Be friendly and flirtatious, and he will be surprised.
3. Meet other men
One thing is for sure; you should not start a new relationship until you are over your ex. But if you want to make him jealous there is no reason why you should not talk to other guys. One way of doing is to be friendly with his friends if you meet them.
But be careful not to overstep- sleeping with his friend will most likely ruin your chances of getting back together. Another way to make him jealous is to start seeing someone who is better than your ex in some way. You know what your ex’s insecurities are, so use them to make him jealous.
4. Improve yourself
A good way to make your ex-jealous is to change yourself for the best. Perhaps you were thinking of going for a trip, but you were always waiting for him to come along. Well now is your chance to do whatever you want.
Get a new wardrobe, change your hairstyle and start working out. All of these things can make you happier. And it will also make your ex-crazy, to see how well you are doing without him. Challenge yourself and be proud of who you are.
5. Show off your happiness
Once you have taken time to grieve your relationship and worked to improve your life, it is time to show it off a bit. Throw a party with your (and also his) friends and have fun. Take pictures and post them online. Just don’t overdo it and don’t do anything that you might regret the next day.
Seeing that you are doing well will most likely spark jealousy in him. But whatever happens, avoid texting or calling him first. If you do, he might think that all your improvements are just a desperate way to get attention.