10 Ways To Find Out Whether It’s Love Or Infatuation

10 Ways To Find Out Whether It’s Love Or Infatuation

Being in love is one of the best feelings a person can have. But what is the difference between love and infatuation? Recognizing the difference can help you to move steadily ahead in your relationship. Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship, when you are overwhelmed with emotions.



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This feeling is not lasting unless you fall in love with the person. Love is something that lasts forever. Even if you break up with the person you love, you can still have this feeling for them. This article will help you to sort out your emotions and recognize if you are truly in love or just infatuated.

1. How Long Do You Know Each Other?

Some people might fall in love from the first sight and stay together with this person forever. But in some cases, you are blinded by infatuation, and it is hard to differentiate it from love. Before you admit to loving someone, spend a couple of months together and get to know each other better.

2. What Are You Looking For In A Partner?

Most people have a checklist of things they are searching for in a partner. When you start a relationship, you hope that this person is going to be the right one and fit all the qualities you are searching for. In many cases, you make excuses for the other person just because you are hoping to see the best in them. That is all part of infatuation. If you truly love someone, you will not want to change anything about them. Besides, love is not about satisfying your needs.

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3. How Do They Treat You?

If you have found an amazing person and have fallen for them, you might feel like the luckiest person in the world. The thought of losing them might be terrifying. Sometimes you don’t even understand why this person is together with you. Putting someone on the pedestal is a part of being infatuated. In this case, you will often feel insecure and lesser than your partner. In true love, partners are equals and appreciate each other. Nobody is perfect, but you recognize each other´s imperfections and accept them.

4. Are You Able To Focus On Your Life?

Feeling like you have won the ultimate love lottery is all part of infatuation. When you are at this stage of the relationship, it seems impossible to focus on reality. Very often at this juncture, people forget about their daily routine, skip job and go a little bit crazy. When you are really in love with someone, your feelings are not so fading. You will be warmed with the sense of stability. You become a better person, and you try to do your best.

5. Do You Know Them?

When you are infatuated with someone, you might feel like you have known them for ages. That immediate sparkle and click you think with them makes you believe it is love. But be careful, because it might turn out that your mind is playing tricks with you. It takes time to get to know someone. Love means knowing the other person entirely not guessing things about them.

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6. Are You Jealous Of Them?

Jealousy comes from a feeling of insecurity. If you are truly in love, you will not need to feel jealous. A big part of love is trust. If you can´t trust your partner and always feel insecure, it might just be infatuation.

7. Why Do You Love Them?

Your partner might be the most beautiful, richest or funniest person in the world. But is that really why you love them? When you are infatuated with someone, you mostly love the other person for their superficial qualities. If you truly love someone, superficial values don’t matter so much.

8. Is Everything Perfect?

If your relationship seems to be perfect, you are probably infatuated. You expect only the best from your partner and can’t imagine fighting with them about anything. Love means having disagreements with your partner and solving them. Getting past your differences makes your relationship stronger.

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9. Are You Still Interested?

A good sign that you are not in love but infatuated is suddenly losing interest in your partner. You had a lot of passion, but now it is all gone. Losing interest just proves that you were never in love.

10. Are You Feeling Lonely?

If you are in a relationship but still feel alone and disconnected from your partner, it might just have been infatuation. When you have someone who truly loves you, they will always be there for you.

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