Cheating Partners – How To Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating
You should be able to trust your partner completely. But your intuition is telling you that something is just not right. If you have suspicions that your partner is cheating on you, there are a few ways to find it out for sure. Just make sure that you really want to find out and be willing to accept that you might have been wrong. Spying on your partner can be a tricky business. Read further to find out how to tell if your partner is cheating.
Pay attention to the signs
If you have suspicions of your partner cheating, you probably have a reason. Pay attention to your partner’s daily routine. What has changed? Is there an explanation to these changes? For example, your partner has started to work very late, or even stayed at the office overnight, but previously they were always home at the same time. This might be sign that they are cheating. Or it can also be explained by a recent promotion, new boss or a big project coming to end.
Listen carefully to what your partner says and if you can, find out if his colleagues are also under the same amount of workload. Some cheaters tend to rationalize their behavior. For example, they might think that if they come home exactly at 6 o’clock every day, you will not get suspicious. Many cheaters tend to stick to a certain timeline, so you will probably need more information if you want to catch them.
How your partner speaks
While this might not be a way to catch a cheater by the hand, listening to your partner’s language might be a sign that they are cheating. If your partner is still doing everything they did before, but suddenly you hear new expressions added to their language, it might be a sign that there is someone new in their life.
How they treat their phone
Phone is probably the key to finding out if your partner is cheating. One of the first signs is that they are making secret phone calls or messaging someone all the time, when they think you are not looking. They used to leave the phone just lying around all day, but now they don’t even take a shower without it.
This might be a sign that your partner has something to hide. Actually checking their phone might be crossing a line of trust, but if you are willing to do it- try. Most likely their phone will have a new access code and you will not be able to see what’s hiding there.
Changes in your partner’s appearance
Appearance can give away a cheater. If your partner didn’t pay too much attention to their appearance, but suddenly they are spending more and more time by the mirror, it can be a sign of a possible affair. Of course, perhaps they just want to look better, but there should be a reason why this has happened so suddenly. If they are paying a lot of attention on how they look when they go out without you, it might be a sign of cheating.
Modern technology offers a lot of opportunities to catch a cheater. Your partner is now carrying their phone with them everywhere they go, so you might be able to tell where they are.
You might not get full information of their whereabouts, but if your partner is in a part of the town they have no business being in- perhaps they are cheating. If you are willing to catch them in action and you are resourceful, you can go as far as checking their bank accounts, mobile phone and computer.