5 Signs She Is A Loser
There are many ways of identifying the type of a girl you are dating. Women are different, and so are their personalities. Here are a few tips on how to identify these signs and know that you are dating a loser.
1. She Is Flirtatious
This girl is attractive and could corner any man. The first time you met her, she did not approach you directly. She looked at you and smiled and maybe wicked, so you offered to buy her a drink. Additionally, she is sexually fluid which can make any man want to hang out with her. For her, she uses this to her advantage. Also, she makes this charming and sweet faces which make men go crazy.
When you take her out to the club, she makes new male friends and starts conversations with them. This annoys you, but you do not like looking like the insecure kind of guy. It is a shame what she puts you through. This girl has many baby fathers. When you went to visit her at her house, there were two or more children from different baby daddies.
This was awkward but she was pretty, probably the prettiest you have ever been with. Due to this fact, you overlooked that she has babies who have been sired by different men. In fact, this lady does not have any kind of discipline. When men offer her something whether free drinks, rides or food she just takes it. If she is flirtatious, then she is a loser.
2. She Uses Sex As A Bargaining Chip
This girl is a regular gold digger. She will ask for something for sex in return. She may ask to drive your nice car or that you take her shopping and foot the bill. It is constantly about what she will get in return if she agrees to have sex with you. At times, she will get playful and make you want her. After that, she states her demands, and you have no option but to say yes because you desire her.
She has a tendency to change your mind about things. For example, when your friends call she says that she doesn’t like them. Every time your friends want to hang out, she pulls the sex card. If she uses sex as a bargaining chip, then she is a loser.
3. She Is Overbearing
At first, you did not realize it, but you came to find later out that this lady is desperate. She could not wait to have a man in her life who handles all her troubles. Always, she calls to check on you. Million of errands are lined up for you to run.
She has the tendency to say what a real man should do as though she is teaching you how to be a real man. Furthermore, she wants you to do everything with her even when it is not your interest. Her whole life story is based on you. If she is overbearing, then she is a loser.
4. She Lacks Substance
She is pretty, but that is it. Also, she does not have any kind of self-awareness. Additionally, she is oblivious to the fact that actions have repercussions. Also, she blames people for things going wrong for her and loses her friends due to backstabbing cases. Also, she has a coping mechanism which involves rationalizing bad decisions.
When she is caught by traffic police, she says it’s a good thing because she experienced a breathalyzer. She blames men for being single even though it is her bad personality that makes her updateable. If she lacks substance, then she is a loser.
5. She Has A Gang
She has a group of friends who influence all the decisions she makes on a daily basis. In fact, she calls them in the middle of the night to compare notes about her sex life. Then, she comes home with a bad attitude after a girl’s night out. Seemingly, she lets the girls tell her what to do. If she has a gang, then she is a loser.