8 Ideal Ways To End An Affair With A Married Man

8 Ideal Ways To End An Affair With A Married Man

You can’t help who you fall in love with. Marriage can sometimes be difficult. A promise to stay together for the rest of your life with one person is a big decision. Many people make it for the wrong reasons, and it might lead to one of them having an affair. If you are dating a married man, it is probably very stressful. It doesn’t matter how things between you started. You are always the other person. Deciding to break up is not easy. Continue reading to find out how to end an affair with a married man.



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1. Be Realistic

You might think that you are in love with this person. Maybe he is telling that his marriage is over, but he is still living together with his wife. You feel that this affair is not healthy and you are in constant emotional pain because of it. If so, you should ask yourself is it love? Of course, there are times when two people stay legally married for certain reasons, but they are living separately. But if he is still living together with his wife and family, what does it make you? You should realize that he is not going to leave his wife for you.

Of course, there are times when two people stay legally married for certain reasons, but they are living separately. But if he is still living together with his wife and family, what does it make you? You should realize that he is not going to leave his wife for you.

2. Be Certain About Your Decision

Once you have recognized that you are living in a toxic relationship, you should also make the right decision of ending it. This relationship is not doing you any favors. In fact, you are wasting time on a man that is already married, while you could be out there searching for your soulmate. Once you have decided to end things, stick to your decision. He might want to talk you out of it since you are probably also critical to him. But don’t give in to emotional manipulation.

3. Be Independent & Strong

The decision of ending things and breaking up with a married man is coming from you. You are sick of the situation and putting your life on hold for someone. This decision is all about you, so don’t make it about him. If you use arguments that are about him, he will only make promises he will never keep. He will promise you to tell his wife, to break up with her and to be with you. But if he hasn’t done it so far, most likely he will not do it now. If you want out, you decide to make. It is your life and your happiness.

4. Think About His Wife

When you found out that he is married, it was your choice to stay in this relationship. You could have ended things right there and then, but you decided to stay. He has probably told you a lot of stories about his wife and how terrible she is. But you should remember that every story has two sides. You don’t know how he is treating her, and you don’t know all the reasons for trouble in their relationship.

So before you think about his wife as the person who is keeping you away from happiness, consider that she might also have a say in this. She is also a person with feelings and emotions and knowing that her husband is together with someone else probably hurts her a lot. This man you are dating has chosen cheating. If everything in their relationship is bad, he should have ended things on his own.

5. Do You Want This?

If you are still having trouble with breaking up with him, think about your future together. Deep in your heart, you know that he is not going to leave his wife. So for how long do you think you will able to handle this situation? You will not be able to spend holidays together with him or introduce him to your friends and family. There is also no chance that you will have a family of your own if you stay with him. Plus, statistics also say that relationships that start as affairs are highly likely to end up in divorce too. Any way you look at it, being with him is not a good idea.

6. Ask For Help

Having an affair with a married man can feel very lonely. You are not able to tell anyone because you feel ashamed and you are trying to keep things as secret as possible. But when you have decided to break up with him, it might be the right time to find someone you can trust and tell them about it. Having support from another person can make things easier for you. You will have a shoulder to cry on and help you in moments of weakness.

7. Get Out Of His Life

One of the best ways to end things with him is to leave. It is not an easy task since you will have to make a lot of changes in your life, perhaps even change your job or city you live in. But getting away from this man can make you feel free. If you are having trouble getting away from him, take a few days off. Go on a vacation, switch off you phone and block him from all the social media. This can make him understand that you are serious.

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8. Process And Move On

When you have ended your affair with a married man, take time to process your relationship. This is an opportunity for you to learn from your mistakes and keep them in mind for your future relationships. When you are back on your feet, start dating again. Next time you will probably be more cautious before getting together with a married guy.

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